Monday, February 2, 2009

Daily Life


What is a day like in the life of a Chinese person? Well, much like America, it depends on whose shoes you are wearing. Take for instance our bike guard downstairs who is probably in his late seventies. He wakes up early, opens his front door (the bike shed), starts a fire in a can with scrap wood and cardboard, lights his foot and half long pipe and sits down. He pretty much stays in this position until nightfall when the fire may get moved inside the shed. He is usually joined by friends and the gate guard who all huddle around the fire on stools 6 inches high, talking, knitting and smoking. He goes to bed around10pm and locks the door. If you come in after that and want to put your bike away, he has to get out of bed to let you in. He is friendly and loves it when we give him our cardboard boxes. Since we figured out that we have to pay to keep Frank's bike there, he smiles at us every morning.

Or, take the girls and boys who work at the plethora of restaurants on our street. At about 9 am, they are squatting on the side walk, peeling garlic, rinsing vegetables, cutting chilies, salting meat and cleaning windows. After that is all done, they may play badminton or jump rope until customers start arriving. After the lunch rush, they will squat outside again, doing dishes and prepping more veggies for the dinner crowd. They work very hard for very little but usually they are smiling. There are more types of work than I can mention here. Many are food related. Food stands abound and people of all ages work them. They sell fresh pineapple halves, baked potatoes from a metal drum oven, roasted chestnuts, meat on a stick, stinky tofu, noodles, fried potatoes, fried "hotdogs", etc.
Parents and grandparents are seen early in the morning taking kids to school on the back of their bikes, scooters, or just their backs. Many older ones use the morning hours to excercise on gym equipment that in the states would be a child's playground. Some dance or do TaiChi in the courtyards of their apartments and spend the day playing mahjong, cards or knitting. The weekends are the best, especially if you visit the local parks. People young and old come to dance, sing and play music. They are a very hard working people and are willing to do whatever puts food on the table. I have seen street sweeping women run in front of oncoming traffic to pick up a piece of trash; young, slightly built women hauling sand, bricks, huge chunks of concrete; elderly men and women collecting plastic and cardboard from wherever it can be found. There are people who shine shoes sitting next to fortune tellers who sit next to a little old lady selling delicately knitted baby shoes. The list goes on and on. Their diligence and humility is an amazing thing to behold... and perhaps, to imitate.























































4 comments:

  1. What an amazing post... I loved this. Keeping up with reading these makes me so excited to go. I really like the way you described everything. Beautiful.

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  2. Manda, your take on the outlook of the chinese people is amazing. If only people in the States could have the same attitude, to work at something no matter what it is, wholeheartedly to provide for their family. And do it with a smile. miss ya gurl!

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  3. I love all your photos...and the narratives with them!

    So, Frank said next time around you would ignore the baggage weight limit and pack what you wanted. I was thinking of this folding laundry today because it dawned on me when we go away I think I am going to pack a few pillowcases. Just to have the "home" feeling. What things like that did you guys bring..to feel @ home instantly? : )
    All our love.

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  4. We brought towels, pictures of family and friends. I brought a few things for my kitchen and some bath and body works lotions. Unfortunately, we did not have someone to teach us this and left most of home at home. Now we know. Anything that helps you feel comfortable and relaxed should be considered. You will be surprised how much a kitchen towel from home means to you or that picture of you and your best friend that you have on the shelf. Bring it!

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